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1. Self-reliance is the ultimate expression of self-trust. When most people are paralyzed by the unknown, the self-reliant individual is capable of looking into the void, and finding the light at the end of the tunnel. The path out of confusion starts with the belief that one can, and that the key lies somewhere within. The path out of confusion is paved by unwavering confidence in oneself. Trust yourself more.
2.The more one uses the inner resources to solve problems, the more this pool of resources grows. Each act of self-reliance makes the next one possible. Not only because of the now accumulated experience but also because of the boost in self-esteem and self-confidence wining by oneself fosters. Start with the smallest task you can take, and when you find yourself victorious, make the effort to take on bigger challenges, and before you realize it, you might find yourself at the top of a mountain you might have previously thought impossible to climb alone.
3. The simplest way to become more self-reliant is by creating the habit of broad reading and study. As the more you learn, the greater the scope and difficulty of problems you can tackle. Sometimes one’s dependence on others is caused by ignorance, and this is one of the easiest problems to fix.
4. We live in a time when arrogant self-confidence is frowned upon, but just like most things in life, this same elevated belief in oneself can be of use. You can become more self-reliant by fighting the voices within that convince you that you can’t, as well as by developing the taste for challenge and difficulty.
5. There is no better way to spur the inner resourcefulness we all have, as well as to boost self-reliance than to remove the helping rope we all have and rely on. So if you want to become more self-reliant, remove all help, and make sure you are the only help you have access to.
It is all about knowledge and experience 😉
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